In the blink of an eye, another 13 weeks in NUS have just passed again. It seemed like I just had my first ES2007S lesson yesterday and here I am now, writing my last blog post for the module. I recall (though, it's really just a mouse click away) the first post that I made about why effective communication skills are important for me. In that post, I highlighted the importance of active listening in both my personal and professional lives.
Throughout the course, I had many opportunities to practice my active listening skills; from class discussions to interviews to question and answer sessions (after the peer teaching and oral presentation), virtually everything I did in (and out of) class required me to be an active listener. Now that I have completed the course, I would not say that I am an excellent listener (sorry Brad, I did not catch the deadline for blog post #5), but I definitely feel that I am a better listener (my girlfriend can attest to that). I find myself paying more attention to the speaker and interpreting his/her non-verbal cues, showing that I am listening by nodding my head and making small verbal comments like "uh huh" and "mm", providing feedback and clarifying by asking questions, and deferring counter-arguments. Of course, this list is not exhaustive.
Apart from active listening, I have also learnt and worked on other communication skills during the course. From the skill review we had last lesson, I was surprised by the myriad of skills we covered in the course (we covered almost every single skill, one way or another). One other communication skill of mine which I feel has vastly improved is my presentation skill. As I mentioned in my previous post, although I still get butterflies in my stomach, I feel more confident during presentations now.
All in all, the journey through ES2007S was an enriching one. As Robert M. Hutchins once said, "The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives." I believe ES2007S has provided me with the knowledge and skills to embark on a lifelong journey to be a more effective communicator.